Though admittedly I can't identify with this life situation I really like this one.
I like the style; the yellow speech bubbles and the trembling white membrane outlines around the characters. There is an acuteness to it--somehow I read all the sentences as ending in exclamation points even though they don't. It's also intriguing to me that the woman challenges the man to see past his preconceptions while at the same she ostensibly sees him in accordance with negative male stereotypes as a festering murderous demon.
To man's defense: most of us are not cruel and indifferent to other people's feelings, we are just not very bright and can forget that other people have feelings at all. Reminders like this can be infinitely valuable. I hope one way or another this dude, no matter how detestable he might be, found out how you feel.
And I'm sorry you had such an intensely disquieting experience; hope you are a bit better now.
No this was actually an experience i had with an extremely sexist young man! I made this because I remembered something they said about how all the girls he knew were whores and they "were all out to get him"; yet i was different because i was technically still a little girl in his eyes. I know for a fact not all men are cruel and indifferent! Im only speaking of one person not men in general. And the "C'mon be a man about it" title was from a song that reminded me of this person. sorry if this art work came out offensive or if it seems like i'm taking a stab at the male gender!!
Oh, now he almost sounds like less of a sexist and more of a paranoid sociopath (or he was terribly drunk or something.) I guess I understand why you drew him the way you did.
When I went on the defensive it was not because I felt offended but because I felt guilty, partially because of the picture itself but also due to the other comments here. Even if you think I misinterpreted your work I think the male gender could do with a stab every now and then, not as a punishment but simply to keep it on its toes.
Clearly this guy was a uniquely bad sort and I'm happy he obviously didn't impair your faith in men too severely.
I gave up on dating a long time ago. I am very secure in the fact that I am a heterosexual but I just HATE men after several really bad break ups and a run with molestation from my mothers boyfriend. Men are not worth the time most days and I really understand where you are coming from.
There is something to be said about a society that finds a man pursuing a woman as chivalrous while a woman pursuing a man as a whore. Or better yet; watch your back, check your car before getting in after dark and walk faster if you are being followed, not 'don't rape.' Things are honestly stacked in mens favor on an underlying level so unfortunately, I have found most men to be so far up on high horses they are often beyond reason.
/pap/ It's okay though, there are many women around that make good friends, most willing to help you out when you need the hand. And to be honest, if that guy really was that way, he was probably gay and trying to hide it~~~
I'm pansexual, and I dont hate men. Absolutely not! Its just I have had one or two negative experiences with unpleasant and overly sexist young men (only 1 to date actually). But I absolutely cant stand this modern rape culture about how women are to blame for men's sexist beliefs. But I agree most of the met I have ever met are against feminism, calling it "stupid" and "annoying". IM sorry about your experience tho! thats terrible and UGHHh when men act that way it makes me really mad omfg. And I this particular person was just really nasty in general saying things about how all the women he knew were whores and they're useless except for when it comes to sex; yet he thought I was different because I was "technically still an innocent little girl" in his eyes. and just??? ughhgh
I'm sorry, i just wanted to say something that's been kind of bugging me on the topic of feminism (and I'm all for equal rights by the way). It's that most of the guys i know who don't like it aren't annoyed by the movement. What they get annoyed about are the "feminists" who join the cause and don't even know what it's all really about. To be honest i have seen a lot of feminists who make the whole movement look really bad, and on the flip side there are a lot of sexist pigs who make us men look bad too. There are plenty of men out there that think are on the woman's side of things when it comes to rape, it is an unfair assumption to say that we all think rape is the victim's fault. What I'm trying to say is that not all men are bad, but there are some scum out there too.
I know not all men are bad and I'm not trying to take a stab at the male gender as a whole! By this picture I am only referring to one person, who just happened to be a male. I dont think I worded my thoughts correctly in the previous comments. This person who I am talking about was just a nasty person with hateful thoughts in general. And one the topic of feminism, I find that alot of men (the ones I know I mean) joke about it and mock girls who identify as a feminist. I think it is easy to ignore sexism when it works in your favor. But I agree some people who are feminists don't really understand feminism and are just?????? The make the rest of us look bad (man hating feminists and the costantly offended social justice feminists)
I like the style; the yellow speech bubbles and the trembling white membrane outlines around the characters. There is an acuteness to it--somehow I read all the sentences as ending in exclamation points even though they don't. It's also intriguing to me that the woman challenges the man to see past his preconceptions while at the same she ostensibly sees him in accordance with negative male stereotypes as a festering murderous demon.
To man's defense: most of us are not cruel and indifferent to other people's feelings, we are just not very bright and can forget that other people have feelings at all. Reminders like this can be infinitely valuable. I hope one way or another this dude, no matter how detestable he might be, found out how you feel.
And I'm sorry you had such an intensely disquieting experience; hope you are a bit better now.
When I went on the defensive it was not because I felt offended but because I felt guilty, partially because of the picture itself but also due to the other comments here. Even if you think I misinterpreted your work I think the male gender could do with a stab every now and then, not as a punishment but simply to keep it on its toes.
Clearly this guy was a uniquely bad sort and I'm happy he obviously didn't impair your faith in men too severely.
There is something to be said about a society that finds a man pursuing a woman as chivalrous while a woman pursuing a man as a whore. Or better yet; watch your back, check your car before getting in after dark and walk faster if you are being followed, not 'don't rape.' Things are honestly stacked in mens favor on an underlying level so unfortunately, I have found most men to be so far up on high horses they are often beyond reason.
/pap/ It's okay though, there are many women around that make good friends, most willing to help you out when you need the hand. And to be honest, if that guy really was that way, he was probably gay and trying to hide it~~~
IM sorry about your experience tho! thats terrible and UGHHh when men act that way it makes me really mad omfg.
And I this particular person was just really nasty in general saying things about how all the women he knew were whores and they're useless except for when it comes to sex; yet he thought I was different because I was "technically still an innocent little girl" in his eyes. and just??? ughhgh